I’m hoping to have a fun, elegant, whimsical affair. It’s a Friday evening and since I’m getting dressed up I’d like my guests to get dressed up too.
This is good.
This? Not so much. Nothing like this. Nope. Nope. Nope.
So what’s the best way to get the word out? And how should that “word” be phrased?
At some point wedding attire guidelines (hmmm…does that sound harsh?) will be posted on the wedding website.
I know I want formal but should I say black tie or black tie optional? What’s the difference anyway? My thought is if people aim for black tie then they should at least hit formal. Right?
I’ve heard that you put this kind of thing on the invitation. But where? I can’t seem to find any examples. Can I put it on the RSVP card? In all honesty, I just hope it spreads via word of mouth and the website.